Divorce Tip #8 – The Perfect Start
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It shouldn’t be any surprise that I emphasize good research and planning as the best way to ensure that you receive a favorable divorce settlement. Many of you right now are here for just that reason. Others are in the unfortunate position where they have to play catch-up with their wife and her divorce attorney.
Too many times I have heard stories about how this guy knew that a divorce was coming, but was just too reluctant to actually pull the trigger. There is a reason why the wives are twice as likely to file for divorce than their husbands. They know that if they are to get the alimony they want, the house, and custody of your kids, they are going to have to fight for it. Honestly, it scares that crap out of them to think that they have to live without your income, and the home that you have probably put everything you had into.
The key to your success is getting a head-start! I am not talking about jumping in with the first divorce attorney that you talk to, and I am definitely not talking about running to the courthouse to be the first to file for divorce. All of this means nothing without a plan, without some action on your part. Remember you are fighting an uphill battle from the beginning, simply because you are the husband in the relationship.
This concept is actually kind of sneaky on your part, but definitely not illegal or dirty. It’s the idea of planning your divorce months in advance, taking steps to minimize or even eliminate the damage that a divorce can cause to your finances, your kids, and your future! You should know when a divorce is coming. It may be as black and white as a long term separation or it may be more subtle like a change in attitudes towards each other.
If you take this preventive approach, you can literally save thousands of dollars. There is a website called secretdivorce.com that gives you the resources that you need to prepare early, ask questions for real divorce experts, and prepare yourself and your finances before you even hire a divorce attorney. The idea is to have everything done ahead of time so when you finally get a divorce attorney you simply hand over a winning case.
Some good points to secretdivorce.com is that everything is done online so there is no “evidence” laying around the house, there is a 100% money back guarantee (no questions asked), and it is a system that has been developed over many years and 100’s of cases so there is no guesswork at all. And right now there is a 15% discount if you just use FTDISCOUNT as the coupon code. I strongly recommend that you at least check them out, there is really nothing that you have to lose.
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February 23rd, 2009 at 11:14 am
By the time a wife realizes that Mr. Nice Guy is really a passive-aggressive, conflict avoidant, control-freak cheat who wants to steal and spend as much as he can (of what SHE has ALSO worked for) on some unctuous office sl*t, you expect that she wouldn’t go for the throat? Especially as she will be the one who will most likely have almost sole responsibility for the children that he (so cheerfully) impregnated her with during the, “good” years!
Since the standard of living for any woman who is divorced goes down substantially…hell yes she is going to fight for every nickel. Just remember…”sneaky,” can be done by the wife, too. Websites such as yours are a boon to innnocent women, too. Keep up the good work!
March 22nd, 2009 at 9:51 pm
Love it Branda…love it…that’s what happened with my soon to be ex… I am doing my homework, and here is a perfect place to continue!!! Thanks