It shouldn’t be any surprise that I emphasize good research and planning as the best way to ensure that you receive a favorable divorce settlement. Many of you right now are here for just that reason. Others are in the unfortunate position where they have to play catch-up with their wife and her divorce attorney.
Too many times I have heard stories about how this guy knew that a divorce was coming, but was just too reluctant to actually pull the trigger. There is a reason why the wives are twice as likely to file for divorce than their husbands. They know that if they are to get the alimony they want, the house, and custody of your kids, they are going to have to fight for it. Honestly, it scares that crap out of them to think that they have to live without your income, and the home that you have probably put everything you had into.
The key to your success is getting a head-start! I am not talking about jumping in with the first divorce attorney that you talk to, and I am definitely not talking about running to the courthouse to be the first to file for divorce. All of this means nothing without a plan, without some action on your part. Remember you are fighting an uphill battle from the beginning, simply because you are the husband in the relationship.
This concept is actually kind of sneaky on your part, but definitely not illegal or dirty. It’s the idea of planning your divorce months in advance, taking steps to minimize or even eliminate the damage that a divorce can cause to your finances, your kids, and your future! You should know when a divorce is coming. It may be as black and white as a long term separation or it may be more subtle like a change in attitudes towards each other.
If you take this preventive approach, you can literally save thousands of dollars. There is a website called secretdivorce.com that gives you the resources that you need to prepare early, ask questions for real divorce experts, and prepare yourself and your finances before you even hire a divorce attorney. The idea is to have everything done ahead of time so when you finally get a divorce attorney you simply hand over a winning case.
Some good points to secretdivorce.com is that everything is done online so there is no “evidence” laying around the house, there is a 100% money back guarantee (no questions asked), and it is a system that has been developed over many years and 100′s of cases so there is no guesswork at all. And right now there is a big promotion that you might want to take advantage of. I strongly recommend that you at least check them out, there is really nothing that you have to lose.
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Ok guys, i need some advice/help/get this off my chest. First off, this site has been very helpful, thank you. Ok, my wife and I have been married for 3 yrs. She has a son from a previous marriage that lives with us (9) and we have a daughter together (3). Family of four, she is a stay at home mom, one income plus her child support. I’m going to give you the honest story about everything that has happened. When we first got married everything was great. Soon after, i found out she was abusing pills. She would hop from dr. to dr. to get the amount she needed. I did not know this until I recieved a call from my insurance company. Anyway, i confronted her about it, she of course said she had no problem. About a year later she decided she did, entered an outpatient rehab, was put on a medication to step down from the vicodin, was doing great, but then decided to go out and get more vicodin, this time for her sis, got kicked out of rehab, now is addicted to the medication that was suppose to help her get off of the vicodin and is dr hopping again and will not go back to a counselor. Also found out after we got married that she has a bench warrant in another state for a dui, she left that state, moved to Texas, brought her son (which violated the divorce agreement from previous marriage) to start over. Ok, so that is bad enough…got a call at work one day that she was being arrested for shoplifting, class a misdemeanor, and to top it off, she had our daughter with her. Great. So we got a lawyer to clear that up. Last straw, as a family on one income, her child support that she is getting for my stepson comes in need to provide for him. So when i asked her if she has recieved any in December to help out with Christmas and things (goes into her own account) she said no..found out she actually did. Same thing in January and February..totaling $1000 dollars. I work hard to give her and my family what they want and need…all i am asking is not to be lied to. So i am at my end but i am at a loss because my little girl is my world. I would do anything for her. My stepson is a great kid and i love him to death but in the end i know i have no rights when it comes to him. My focus is on my baby. I need to find a good attorney that will fight for me. My question is, what are my chances of getting full custody of my girl? What scares me the most is her up and taking the kids like she did when she moved here originally. I need help, i dont know where to start! Thank you so much for listening to me ramble on!